Finding Some “Me Time”

How to Be Alone When Everyone is Around

by Ella Barchie ★ March 26th, 2026

Photo Credit: Olivia Longabardi

I love being social; I enjoy being with friends, going out, and meeting new people. But eventually the social battery dies, and the only thing I truly need is to be by myself. But with roommates, neighbors, and other students basically everywhere, it can be hard to find a place to recharge. That is, unless you know where to go. Here is a guide to the perfect places and tricks to escape. 

Study Rooms– Who Says You Need an Assignment to Reserve One? 

I’ve found an underrated place at Syracuse University, the Bird Library Study rooms. Through all the class projects, big assignments, and heavy midterms, I’ve never heard them mentioned. Whether or not you’re cramming for an exam, the study rooms are absolutely perfect for a place to get some much-needed “me-time.” They’re quiet and comfortable, and you’re guaranteed to not to be bothered. 

Safire Room– Beautiful and Peaceful

Speaking of Bird, another good spot is all the way at the top in the Safire Room. Although it is possible that others could be there, the numbers are small, and since it’s on the sixth floor, everyone must be quiet. And, it gets bonus points for the corner desks that look like they came straight from a Pinterest board. 

Music– Never Underestimate the Power of Noise

Ironically, I find that music is the biggest help when the world’s feeling too loud. Immersing myself in a song transports me into my own world. On those rare warm Syracuse days, going outside somewhere on the Quad and listening to music ends up being enough to separate myself from everyone else. 

Don’t Be Afraid to Explore

Sometimes quiet spots are where you least expect it, like random chairs in Tolley, or hidden corners of the Hall of Languages. Syracuse is a big campus with lots of buildings. Often people don’t spend the time walking around finding a space to call their own. And whether or not a space is empty can depend on the time and place. Taking the time to walk around and see what you can find leads to those hidden spots others might not see. 

Edited by: Maia Simmons & Kaila Hu